I realize that most of us (I am no exception whatsoever) are always in this state of finding things to do.

Whenever we are free or relaxed, we are just totally not used to it. I realize this even more ever since I enter the workforce. Since my work also allows me to control the majority of my time, I believe mine is a tad bit tougher than most of the employed jobs because I would have to manage myself consistently.

I would have done something and then subsequently felt like I wasn’t productive or the day’s work wasn’t enough. It often made me very unsatisfied and doubtful everyday. I would have thoughts like,”I should have done more” or “I need to improve on this and that” or “I need to spend more time focusing on this”. The whole cycle of feeling I should and must do more.

I feel that this is in its part a great limitation. I feel that most of us are conditioned in such a way to actually find fault with what we have done. We are not pleased with our effort. We are always in a state of tension and stress and wanting to move away to another situation. We just don’t know how to accept what we already have done.

We have to realize that what’s done is finished. We would just have to accept that we have done all that we could do.

We could always put in more effort but that is it, we already done all that we can do.

Learn to slow down and not rush. It brings more productivity and more quality to our lives.